It certainly is nice to be more relaxed this time

This photo is just an example of how the second time around you feel so much more comfortable. Like the first morning after she was born and I cut her fingernails because they were so long. With Ryder, it took me like a week to get up the nerve to cut them--I was just really nervous. And when she was hurting a certainly spot on my nipple when she was nursing, I decided to try nursing her in the football hold (which I hadn't done in 2.5 years of nursing) and it worked great. It's just an example of the more relaxed attitude the second time around. Not as nervous about stuff in general. Nice.